You’ve searched for months and cannot find a Catholic community in a 200 mile radius. So you need to start your own Catholic community. So, you get together with one other family. None others if that’s the way things are. You give yourself a name, something very Catholic and put yourself under the patronage of an excellent saint (they’re all excellent, because they are already in heaven) and you start having fun. Plan events. Put it in your local church bulletin. Put it up on the notice board. Put it in church bulletins in a hundred mile radius. You don’t know how many others are out there looking for exactly what you are offering.
Even if its just your family or one other family, plan and post information as though ten or twenty families might be coming.
Be Radical. Be an Idea Person. Make it Happen.